March 2011
I'm a girl, and me and this other girl really like each other, but I can't like her for religious reasons, what do I do?
fuck religion. id be damned if religion came between me and someone i had feelings for.
i apologize if that offended you in anyway….but thats just how i see it.
Labels are labels hon:)
All you need to be known as, is yourself...
exactly. which is already hard enough to do when you’re a twin. i dont need sexuality labels to effect that even more so.
i know you identified as bi, but has that changed?
ive identified as both completely gay, and bi. and in all honesty, im tired of identifying myself as anything but human.
GIRL, YOU WISE, BEAUTIFUL, SCRUMPTIOUS, FUNNY, ISGOINGTOBEMINE, SO.. i'll end my compliments there.
haha awww thankyouuu <33 you’re sweet, but youre anonymous so that makes me sad :(
But as you said, wouldn't you get bored maybe and also maybe cheat? It's a hard thing, I guess.
i would NEVER, EVER cheat on someone. id honestly kill myself before i cheated on someone. if anything, id confront them about it. its the type of thing you have to just take day by day. if it becomes a problem, then it becomes a problem. if it doesnt, then it doesnt. i cant really judge because ive never had to go through that before.
I'm guessing that you would never want to be with someone who's asexual even though you can honestly say you can see yourself with them?
idk thats a tough one. i can fall pretty hard for people…well..girls…so i guess it depends. i cant see myself denying someone because they wont have sex. There’s a whole shitload of things i care about more than that. If im happy with that person, thats all that matters.
Do you think that it is possible to have a serious relationship and committed - without ever having sex with someone? Whether gay or straight?
Maybe if you’re both asexual…but otherwise, i honestly wouldnt count on it. intimacy is an important part of any lasting relationship. obviously, its not everything. but it is important. you get to know someone on a whole separate level when you get to the point of having sex. for me, its a good test of comfortableness. if im comfortable enough to have intimate relations with someone, that means i really truly like them. its a big step. without it, you might as well just be friends.
Also, if you never want to have sex, but your partner does, you’re realllllly riskin being cheated on. its human nature to want to be intimate with someone you’re attracted to/ have feelings for. Imagine you’re cuddling with someone you’re dating, your heart starts beating faster, you can both feel that sexual tension, you start kissing etc…and then it leads to nothing. now sure thats fine, you dont have to have sex every time you cuddle. thats not what im saying…but after a while..someones gunna get bored..
that was probably way too long and detailed haha..but thats my opinion.
ok so i was wondering how to you start up a conversation with someone on tumblr. oh and she lives like 20 min from me.
first of all, congratulations on finding someone that doesnt live in narnia.
secondly, id start with a compliment in the ask box. thats usually how most tumblr convos start. tell her you like her blog, compliment her personally, or ask a question. I suggest a combination of all three. Everyone likes a compliment, but she could easily just ignore that. SO, if you ask a question, there’s a much higher chance of getting a reply. Her blog is going to give you a good idea of the things shes interested in, so ask her something pertaining to those interests :)
hope that helped!
“You are the only one who has understood even a whisper of me, and I will tell you that I am the only person who has understood even a whisper of you.”
—Jonathan Safran Foer, Everything Is Illuminated (via loveyourchaos)
